A woman was diagnosed with a terminal illness and had only a short time to live. Her friends and family gathered around to support her during this difficult time. As she discussed her final wishes with them, she made a special request. She said, "When I'm laid to rest, I want to be buried with a fork in my hand." Her loved ones were puzzled and asked why. She explained, "In all my years attending church potluck dinners and family gatherings, there's one thing I've noticed. When the main course dishes are cleared, someone always says, 'Keep your fork.' It's my favorite part because I know that something sweet is coming, like cake or pie. So, when people see the fork in my hand, I want them to remember that there's something wonderful waiting for me in the afterlife." This story carries the message that even in the face of life's challenges and the unknown, there is always hope for something better in the future. It encourages us to keep a positive outlook and anticipate the sweetness that life may have in store.

My mother told me this story and made it her final request as well. She identified with the story and she knew there was no cure for her either. She lived everyday to the fullest. She laughed, she told stories, and she never gave up living. She encouraged me to begin this journey of becoming a Licensed Professional Counselor. Unfortunately, she wasn’t able to be here to see it come to life. So I have dedicated my practice to her memory and her ‘never give up‘ spirit. Always keep your fork.